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RaVeNiE_P.R.S.
09-26-2006, 11:29 AM
there was something i need to get off my chest..
ok, so there was this guy, and i was soooo after him for like 4 years now...and there was this friend whom, i thought was my friend...
so the deal is, this friend started to like him too... i was startng to worry cuz it looks like she had more chance with him...
so, i need some advice in what i'm going to do, cuz i can't forget him...
InuYashaCool
09-26-2006, 12:57 PM
well here's one thing
dont argue over him i see this all the time when my mom go sees a chick flick and wont let me stay home alone
the 2 main characters like the same guy, they get in an argument, and then they hate each other
it happened the same in naruto Sakura and Ino used to be friends and then Sakura found out the Ino liked Sasuke like her and then they became rivals
so try not to focus on the guy in conversations try to talk about something different try to get your minds off him and even if you want try to get it off your chest i made a thread about that in real life it says off my chest that way you can get your like for him off your chest and you won't confess it to your friend and you wont have to lose your friendship.
sry if it was a bit long because I have arguments with my friends all the time!
ZeroEverlast
09-26-2006, 07:41 PM
Taking advice from a nine year-old quoting anime and tasteless movies will only leave you woeful.
Here're my thoughts:
1) You're pretty pathetic for being after the same guy for four years.
2) You're pretty pathetic for thinking that you've somehow got dibs on him.
3) You're pretty pathetic for feeling "betrayed" (oh noes!) because your friend got tired of your indecisiveness and made a move.
4) You're pretty pathetic for asking a forum of ten year-old anime dorks for advice.
Now, here's my advice:
Either: forget about him, stop acting like a spoiled, jaded child and let your friend have her happiness...
Or: make a move and quit yer whinin'.
El Wiseguy
09-26-2006, 08:02 PM
Well, first off you and your "friend" should talk about things. Communication is key to relationships of all types.
Secondly, if it doesn't work out, move on. 4 years later, you should be able to move on.
Lastly, let it go or actually do something about it. Go talk to this dude and be like, "OK We're like totally going to go out now and stuff and junk."
InuYashaCool
09-26-2006, 08:49 PM
im not ten im twelve you freakin' idiot
El Wiseguy
09-27-2006, 09:42 AM
You know, Inuyasha, you never help your cause. In fact, you seem to make it worse with each post.
Amilian
09-27-2006, 01:47 PM
people, people please..., bah.. there above my rank.. let them fight..
:D :naughty:
sakura_21
09-27-2006, 04:33 PM
just listen to your heart or you can punsh the other girl right in the mouth to impressed the guy you like!!!
FANTASY FAN
09-27-2006, 08:02 PM
GET EM' FIRST. it's only fair if your friend gets him it's only because she has more gut than you, don't get mad because she showed her feelings first. if your luck he may not like her
ZeroEverlast
09-27-2006, 09:29 PM
GET EM' FIRST. it's only fair if your friend gets him it's only because she has more gut than you, don't get mad because she showed her feelings first. if your luck he may not like her
First and only time I'll ever agree with this person.
Sorariku-chan
09-27-2006, 11:21 PM
just listen to your heart or you can punsh the other girl right in the mouth to impressed the guy you like!!!
Oh dear Gawd no at the second part. Like most people said, if you like him that much make your move, try to talk to him, etc.
Now, if your friend makes the move first, then don't get mad or throw a tantrum at it. It's been FOUR YEARS. I'd think that's plenty of time for making a move.
Punching your friend isn't going to help, it'll make you look idiot... Beyond the point of being an idiot. Another thing, if you decide to make your move, and he rejects you ( not saying it will happen, this is just an example ), then it wasn't meant to be. There are plenty of fish in the sea. :3
Anime_Demoness
09-28-2006, 02:26 AM
if you really liked this guy for that long,then you should of done something about it.if you don't then you shouldn't take it out on your friend because she likes him....if you snooze...you lose.
FANTASY FAN
09-29-2006, 08:52 PM
take my advice! she your friend who's boss.
RaVeNiE_P.R.S.
10-01-2006, 11:56 AM
maybe it's right to move on.