Guys

[adidaschic5]

I want a boyfriend at my school but none of them seem to like me.. Probably because I've asked a lot of them out but that's only because none of the guys at my school like me accept for 2 or 3 of my guy friends.. Any advise on how to get a guy to like me?

[El Wiseguy]

Well, I could tell you personally what I look for in a girl.

A good attitude. Someone who can take a joke. Someone who's modest and someone who I can have awesome conversation with.

Now, I can almost guarantee that no guys in high school will be looking for that. They're probably all looking for a girl that will have sex with them whenever they want.

So, don't go out with guys like that. Just wait and find the right guy that loves you for who YOU are and not what you can give them. If a guy wants to be with you and makes you feel uncomfortable or like you have to do something 'for them' to show that you love them, they're not the right guy. This guy doesn't care about you for you. A real man won't make you do anything for them to prove your love. They'll love you because they simply do.

So, don't compromise who you are for someone who cannot accept who you are to begin with.

[karri]

mabe be a littel flirty like don't ask them suduce them into likeing you not my favorite way but it works for lots of people but you don't have to suduce people you can just flirt but suducing helps

[El Wiseguy]

Yeah, maybe I am looking at this too maturely. I mean, it IS high school after all.

Want to know how to get guys? Be slutty. Guys will be all over you. But, my recommendation? Don't do that because you'll be a slut.

[ZeroEverlast]

My advice is: Stop being a slut, slut.

Sort of.

It's all in there, but it depends on your personal interpretation.


EDIT: Oh yes, and stop being ugly. If you are.

Okay, I'll be nice and elaborate - needy chicks are unhot.

[karri]

zero i know ugly girls who have boyfriends not saying that your ugly adidaschic5 but anyway

[Anime_Demoness]

*sigh*...i wish i could give you some magical word that would work but i can't*s*
but have you ever thought the reasons that these guys won't go out with you is for the same reason that you won't date your guy friends.just a thought*s*
oh and if you do find a magical word,let me know*s*

[Narkumi]

Most "guys" are STUPID. yes, thats right. Raving sex rats, like El Wisey said. And it's sad my gf has to always dump me for one of those idiots. :(

From my point-of-view, all the girls at my school all want the SAME GUY. Its some stupid football player and they know nothing about his personality, ignoring people like me, trying to get someone that every other girl wants.
(I'm not sayin ur like that..)

I guess my point is that, maybe you should get to know some other people, u might like what you find. :)

[ZeroEverlast]

Holy shit. That chick actually keeps a blog on this site.

And she's 16. So this will be appropriate.


From top to bottom:
Physicality - The basic essentials:

1) Shower everyday. Duh.

2) Change your underwear everyday. (Some people don't do this. If you are such a person, START TODAY!)

3) Brush your teeth everyday. White teeth are hot. Yellow, or, hell, even black teeth are not.

4) Wash your face with soap, preferably. A small minority of chicks I know tend to break out when washing with cleansing products, so if you notice any eruptions, just wash thoroughly with water.

5) Body odour is utterly unattractive. Use cologne/eau de toilette/deodorant. The last one isn't really recommended unless you're really the active type.

6) Shave your legs (and armpits/upper lip, if need be). I know a lot of girls who shave their legs everyday, but I find it's not really necessary. If you're blond, chances are that guys won't notice a bit of stubble. Once every two days should be fine.

7) Try to wash your hair every two days, at least, though it really depends on how oily/greasy it gets. If your scalp gets really dry, you might want to prolong that period.

8) Make sure to always be clean in all aspects. Pay careful attention to your fingernails.


Physicality - The extras:

1) Moisturize your skin (especially your face) often. I don't know which brands work well for chicks. Nivea for Men is a good choice for lads.

2) Try picking a shampoo-conditionner that will both smell nice and not kill your hair. Depending on your genes, you might not even need conditionner (I sure as hell don't), so don't overkill it and make your hair all unmanageable. Note: smelling nice doesn't mean overpowering others with fragrance.

3) You might want to try straightening or curling your hair and see which option suits you better.

4) Go to a hair care salon, and get a professional haircut... If you're one of those ever-so-elusive chicks who still get their hair snipped by their dads when it grows too long.

5) If you suffer from acne, there are products for that. Your skin might get slightly irritated for the first few weeks if you use cotton pads, but it shouldn't be cause for worry. Some prefer creams or gels to pads. It's really up to you, but DON'T POP YOUR ZITS. If you do, wash your face frequently (but not to the point of drying it out. Moisturizers help.) Also, learn to apply makeup on the go; it can be used to cover the elusive pimple you didn't notice at home.

6) About makeup: learn to balance it out. This isn't something I can really help you with, so ask your mom or something, but there is such a thing as "too much". This also applies to different parts of your face. If there is a noticeable, heterogenous difference between two areas on your face, then you've failed to "balance it out". If you haven't been wearing any makeup before now, take it as a gradual process, otherwise, your sudden application of numerous cosmetics would strike people as odd. Take it easy on the eyeliner. Makeup is really an art in itself. Note: Another thing to watch out for is to compare if there is a distinguishable difference in tone between your face and your neck. If there is, you've either applied too much makeup or you should think of purchasing another shade of blush or what-have-you. Don't want to end up looking like a clown, do you?

7) Lip balm. Get some. Use it.
EDIT: Under your lipstick at all times. I'm sorry I didn't clarify that.

8) Earrings: they're nice, but if you didn't pierce your earlobes yet, or if it's just not your thing, then don't bother with them yet. To note: over-the-top earrings are not recommended for casual days. Preferred are studs or anything discreet like that.



Zzzzzzzzzz... SNORE. Okay, this is getting quite long.

If you're interested in knowing more, then do PM me and I'll pursue this topic. Otherwise, I'm just wasting my time.

Still have lots of physicality issues to write about and some tips to maintain the right mentality.

Anyways. This is all stuff I've learned from exes or that I've been able to observe over the past years. No stolen material.

Yes, I'm that awesome.

[asiacan]

wow.... thats to much to take in.
short and sweet, be nice, thats it don't be pushy
drop obiose hints. all else fails forget them.
ps. its true all men want a loose girl.PEIOD

[flamingmonkey]

I don't.

[InuYashaCool]

adidaschic i dont know much but maybe thisll help
dont repeat things unless the guy knows wat you are talking about
dont make up random conversations
dont go right into kissinng i think thats kinda weird when a girl just goes up outta the blue and kisses you
and try to take intrests in guys who aren't:
jerks
and you dont like

it might not be good advice and you might know some of this stuff anyway im just trying to be nice and help out even if i dont know anything about the subject

[ZeroEverlast]

dont go right into kissinng i think thats kinda weird when a girl just goes up outta the blue and kisses you
Yeah, okay, to hold an opinion like that, it's obviously never happened to the likes of you.

[Narkumi]

lol, I would totally dig a chick kissin' me :D

[El Wiseguy]

its true all men want a loose girl.PEIOD

Whatever a peiod is. o_O

But yeah, that's not true. I'd say the majority of stupid guys want a loose girl. I, however, do not. I'd rather have a girl with moral values and is modest.

[InuYashaCool]

no it hasn't y do you think i put down "I dont't know anything abotu the subject"

duuhhhh:lookweird:



Yeah, okay, to hold an opinion like that, it's obviously never happened to the likes of you.

[Amilian]

... everything's said a think, got nothing to say...
search and you will find, or just wait 'till you see the right moment

[RaVeNiE_P.R.S.]

just be yourself.

[FANTASY FAN]

that's right girl!.......your a girl right?
anyway write notes to the people you like or maybe have a friend date just the two of you. and if you build up enough courage tell him how you feel.
don't be shy say what's really in your heart
there's bound to be a guy somewhere in this world 4 u.
for pete's sake there's like 1 billion guys out there i'm sure one of you will find you attractive.

[ZeroEverlast]

It's like watching the blind lead the blind.

[sakura_21]

you need to get a life cause you are alittle crazy how about you try at a different school if no ones like you at school!!! if you have not reziled who this is then you are a jackass!!!

[adidaschic5]

Yes Dea I know who you are and I only want advice and I'm not crazy I just want advise why the hell are you being so mean to me huh?!?!

[El Wiseguy]

I'm pretty sure I gave some good advice.

[ZeroEverlast]

I'm sure I gave concrete and useful advice.

[FANTASY FAN]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHA!
yes u did Dr.Phil yes you did.
*giggle*
on a anther planet!
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!

[El Wiseguy]

w....t....f....

[FANTASY FAN]

never heard of Dr.Phil?

[El Wiseguy]

Yes, I think he's a douche.

But, mostly the spaztasticism of your previous post.

[Sorariku-chan]

Dr. Phil + Spazzgasm do not go together. :|

wow.... thats to much to take in.
short and sweet, be nice, thats it don't be pushy
drop obiose hints. all else fails forget them.
ps. its true all men want a loose girl.PEIOD

Like Wise said, most do. If you haven't made a statistic or went all around the world asking every single man out there, then don't go saying "ALL". :3

Loose girls = phail. :O If you are such a girl, then I'd go and read... Thoroughly, what ZeroEverlast said. Meaning the long post he typed down. He wasn't being pushy. And if you didn't want such advise, don't bother making a stupid arse thread in an Anime Forum on how to get a guy in your school.

Just by seeing your first post I'd say you might be such said loose girl. :3 *shrugs* But tis just my thoughts.

[sins of a fighter]

i don't have anyone in m mind right now.

[Vector]

i don't have anyone in m mind right now.

yep, same here, and think the girls think the same bout me <.<
Sigh..

[sins of a fighter]

lol,anyway there isn't anyone that i like.

[CorruptedPlague]

there has to be

[El Wiseguy]

Not exactly, I don't have anyone I like at the moment.

[CorruptedPlague]

lol

[El Wiseguy]

Ok everyone. This is a reminder.

This:

lol

IS NOT A LEGAL POST.

This is what you would call a useless post. It adds nothing to the thread and contributes only to one's own post count. All posts like this will be deleted in the future.

[Black Ashes]

be your self. thats all i have to say.

[CorruptedPlague]

i am bieng muself

[Black Ashes]

i am bieng muself

you should never have to change yourself just to Accommodate some one elses needs.

[El Wiseguy]

I agree with Ashes, except of course if you're just acting like a complete douchebag and effecting others negatively. Then yes, you should change yourself.

Example?

Say you get drunk everynight and beat your wife and/or kid. Then, you should change what you're doing with yourself and make a change for the better.

[Anime_Demoness]

I don't believe in changing myself for someone else.
I mean, how long can a person keep it up before they drive themselves crazy.

[FANTASY FAN]

women should be the dominate spieces!!!!
guys think they r sooo strong and think they can push us girls around FORGET IT!!!

[Vector]

Woman keep going on that theyre being suppressed... wtf, i know to many woman that are the boss over example there boyfriend..wich saddens my heart:p , besides that woman get many privelages men dont get..

[Anime_Demoness]

such as?????

[FANTASY FAN]

Yeah! I Would Looooove To Know....

[El Wiseguy]

women should be the dominate spieces!!!!

Except women aren't a separate species from men. :P


And AnimeDemoness, someone should change who they are if they negatively affect other people without consideration. If this person doesn't care that they hurt everyone around them and they just think it's "who they are", then they're one of the most selfish people you can be.

[FANTASY FAN]

i can think like that! ya know it won't hurt anyone.......
still think girls should rule over men......

[sins of a fighter]

i can think like that! ya know it won't hurt anyone.......
still think girls should rule over men......

i agree with your thoughts very much.

[Siziol]

still think girls should rule over men......

I'd rather have endless meaningless war than endless competition and discrimination.

[El Wiseguy]

lawl@ Siziol.

Yeah, I hear so much "b*tching" and "Moaning" that people want "equal rights" but when they get anything they show that they just want to rule over the other people... not equal rights. Selfish turds.

[Anime_Demoness]

Except women aren't a separate species from men. :P


And AnimeDemoness, someone should change who they are if they negatively affect other people without consideration. If this person doesn't care that they hurt everyone around them and they just think it's "who they are", then they're one of the most selfish people you can be.

El Wiseguy...i mean like in a relationship when one person is pretending to be something they're not just to get the person to like you...like when you pretend to like something you don't or you lose a game of(insert game or sport here)just so he doesn't get mad at you and walk off

[sins of a fighter]

well,i feel ok with the equality between men and women.
it wouldn't be very good if women started having more rights than others,it'll be the same was with men years ago.

[El Wiseguy]

Agreed, AnimeDemoness. I wasn't sure of what you meant since your original statement was sort of broad.

[Black Ashes]

no one should have to change themselves if they do not want to. there should be reasoning behind it. my friends say that nothing can change them, well, there wrong. not one person will be exactly the same when they get older. people change themselves wether they think they do or not. people change there looks and what they do to make other people around them happy and in the end they find what they think is them. so change is a good thing. i say that no one should change for another, they should change for themselves and no one else.

[El Wiseguy]

Indeed Black Ashes... yet at the same time, I believe as you do, that change is a good thing. You personally, are who you are inevitably. But, at the same time there are good and bad qualities about all of us. We should always be striving to change the bad qualities about ourselves BECAUSE they effect other people negatively, and because we want to make ourselves better everyday.

[Black Ashes]

Indeed Black Ashes... yet at the same time, I believe as you do, that change is a good thing. You personally, are who you are inevitably. But, at the same time there are good and bad qualities about all of us. We should always be striving to change the bad qualities about ourselves BECAUSE they effect other people negatively, and because we want to make ourselves better everyday.

indeed El Wiseguy. weird. first person to agree with me on this fact......:eek: .....:p

[El Wiseguy]

Well, humans are creatures of habit. They don't naturally like change. Just because it's good doesn't mean that people will "like" them.

:)

[Black Ashes]

Well, humans are creatures of habit. They don't naturally like change. Just because it's good doesn't mean that people will "like" them.

:)

yes. humans are. i like change though...weird. people are hard to change. change takes time and with time good things can happen. change can be for the good but there are times when change is bad. one can change themselves and make themselves into some one they hate and who every one else hates. it's all on how the person changes which makes them the person to be around.

[FANTASY FAN]

characters of evil!

[pokeypillow]

My guy friend beside me said most guys look at looks. i would just be yourself. i have the same problem. Really guys aren't that great anyways,because when you go out with them all they do is stab you in the back in the end. i am still trying to recover from my loss. my friend is also going thru the same stuff. when the right guy comes you will know it. he will be the most charming thing, and when you try to leave ha will chace you and ask for forgivness and all that jazz. you just have to wait for the right guy. i am sorry you are having such troubles.